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Your Woman; Your Responsibility

I think Sir William Goulding said it best: I think women are foolish to think they are equal to men, they are far superior and always have been. Whatever you give a woman she will make it greater. If you give her sperm, she will give you a baby. If you give a woman a house, she will give you a home. If you give a woman groceries, she will give you a meal. If you put a smile on her face, she will give you her heart. A woman multiplies and enlarges whatever is given to her.

If you are a man and you do not think you need a good woman in your life, you do. If you are a man and you think that you can live without a good woman, you cannot. If you think that you will achieve success without a good woman in your life, you will not. If you think that you can play the field and survive, think again. God knew what to do when woman was created, she would be created to provide the yen to your yang. God knew what to do when woman was created, she would be created to be the motivating force in your life, because of man's innate desire to please her. God knew what to do when woman was created, because in a woman you find God's infinite wisdom. God knew what to do when woman was created, she would be created with the power embedded in her DNA to help the man she is with achieve success. God knew what to do when woman was created, she would be created with the ability to give life. God knew what to do when woman was created, she would be created to love. God knew what to do when woman was created.

If you are a man and you have a good woman in your life, understand these key principles. As the man in her life you must do the following:

Adore her
Be her Rockstar
Care for her
Do not take her for granted
Embrace her role in your life
Find ways to show her love(date her, shower her with gifts, make her feel like she is the only woman in the world)
Give her your all(be 100% committed to her at all times)
Hold her when she needs comfort 
Include her in all that you do(even if you think she might not care)
Kiss her when she is feeling down
Love her without equivocation(flaws and all)
Make her feel special and wanted by you
Notice when she does anything to make you happy
Oppose anyone that means your relationship harm(family and friends)
Protect and Provide for her
Quietly pray for her(even when she is not at her best)
Remember to always call or text to say baby are you OK(you cannot ever be to busy that you cannot set aside time for her)
Show her she is worthy of being loved Tell her she is amazing, beautiful and that you love her daily
Understand her needs and wants(work hard to give her the best life possible)
Viciously defend her from anyone and anything meant to do her harm
Wait on her patiently(show your woman she is invaluable by your actions).

I leave you with this: My Brothers when a woman loves a man, she loves that man to the fullest and the only person that can mess that up is you!

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